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6/12/11 10:36 A

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I agree that its a bit creepy. Maybe more so since you say that he is much older than you. Personally, I would just get a creepy older guy vibe. This may sound lewd, but maybe him wanting to hug you is less of him caring for you and more of him just wanting to get his jollies, if you know what I mean.

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6/6/11 2:51 P

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I hate to be cynical but I agree with some of the other posters who have been a bit leery of this man. It's unprofessional to act that way (overly physical, touchy, etc) on the job, and is quite forward. If a guy told me he wanted to "hug and squeeze me", and I didn't know him personally, I'd run the other way. I think it's sorta creepy.



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6/6/11 2:30 P

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It does sound like gino is in to you. do you know his last name? What do you know about him? I am always a bit leary of someone who is way older being interested in someone way younger. Be careful. He might be a great guy but then again.....

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6/6/11 2:19 P

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He's definitely flirting! He's SOOOO into you. Just keep chatting him up if you're interested. Ask your Mom what she thinks of him that's If you want another opinion of him from someone who's met him. Why not? Especially if he's friendly AND cute!


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6/6/11 10:01 A

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Sorry to be skeptical here, but that is inapropriate behaviour for a bus driver. It says a lot about his character- in a bad way.

Be very careful- you're definitely on his radar.

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6/6/11 9:33 A

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Oh yeah. He's s interested.

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6/6/11 8:25 A

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OOOOH! Eye candy!
Take a pic of him & share! Don't keep him to yourself. He'll pose for you! Tell him your girls wanna see this bus driver!

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6/6/11 2:51 A

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Age is just a number, don't get too fixated on that! Sounds like you need to exchange numbers and slowly take it from there!

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6/6/11 2:17 A

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OK!! I say go for it girl!!! So what if he twice your age!! No a days age is just a number....be careful though...but GO GIRL!! emoticon emoticon



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6/5/11 8:40 P

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thanks ladies..i honestly couldn't tell..at times i questioned if he liked me, but then i just thought he was being friendly and i was thinking way too much...too bad he's twice my age (:

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6/5/11 8:39 P

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Well it sounds like the crush might be two sided. Just be careful, you only know a little about him. emoticon

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6/5/11 8:37 P

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It definitely sounds like he is into you.

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6/5/11 8:20 P

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It sounds like he is into you especially since he said he's been wanting to hug and squeeze you for a long time.

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He is very talkative, expecially when he knows his passengers like the regular ones..but as far as the holding of hands, i've never seen it. If i get the front seat which is next to him, he always stricts up a conversation with me, a few times he's complimented me on my clothes and i remember one time he told me i make his bus smells nice lol...even when i'm not getting his bus and see's him, he stops to wave. And if my mom gets the bus and he is her driver she always comes home and tells me Gino says to say hi to me

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6/5/11 8:13 P

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My main question is, does he do this with other passengers? If he doesn't, then he may just be into you! Some people are just outgoing and make contact with others so if he grabs hands with others...well you know. Does he try to meet your eye during the ride?

Since you met him in such a public way, if he does offer to get together, meet in a public place... I am always a bit wary of guys who hit on women from a job in the public eye. I have not witnessed your interactions so I may be overly cynical.

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6/5/11 8:03 P

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So, in a few of my blogs i've talked about one of my bus drivers..who is just absolutely gorgeous....dreamy blue eyes, charming smile and lovely personality. It's safe to say i have a crush on him and he is my eye candy..as he is way older than me. Anyway, on two previous encounters before i've gotten of the bus he's grasped my hands for like 30 seconds before letting me off the bus. I also had another encounter when he saw me at the bus stop and offered me a ride..i was meeting someone so i couldn't, but he asked if he could have a hug and of course i said yes (he smelt soooo good ) and then he told me he's wanted to hug and squeeze me for a long time.

Well, i haven't seen him in a while til yesterday when he so happened to be my bus driver...again as i was getting ready to get off, he holds me hand before he lets me off and says i hope to see you soon

So ladies, when he holds my hand is that a sign that he's into me? i'm completely clueless when it comes to guys..i've never had a boyfriend, but is holding my hand a gesture or something?

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