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5/4/12 2:07 P

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Well Veggie, we would all love to know when someone is dreaming about us but that was not the question. I will tell you in advance however.... tonight you are so gonna be my dirty little play toy!

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5/3/12 6:47 P

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I LOVE LOVE LOVE Curb Your Enthusiasm - Oh Larry ;)

And as far as the question goes - I personally love knowing when people are thinking inappropriate things about me - I don't know why I just do - Making a guest star appearance in anyones dreams is a total compliment to me.





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4/27/12 3:24 P

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I have to think back top when I was married..........Probably would not want to know because I know how I feel about someone I had sex with in a dream. I'd rather they tell me than her though.

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4/27/12 9:34 A

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Fantasies are just that - fantasies. And they are completely normal. As long as they are not acted on, I don't see an issue. And it wouldn't bother me to hear that someone had fantasies about my husband, or that I was the object of someone else's fantasies. As others have said, I'd take it as a compliment.

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4/27/12 6:23 A

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As long as she stays in his fantasies I guess there's nothing I can do about it. Although I wouldn't need to hear any of the nasty details.

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4/27/12 12:08 A

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LOL Well, I never mind hearing that a person thinks I'm hot, I just don't want to hear it in terms of, Wow I totally dedicated my load to you last night. emoticon

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4/26/12 10:58 P

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Pops and I both know that the other has fantasies that involve other people. We are ok with it. We don't have long conversations about it,or dwell on it. We have made jokes about it. If I am going to be away from home for a few nights,Pops may tell me to have BF come check on him. My BFF is also our hair stylist, her bra cup size something like a G or H. He may say something about how he likes it when her huge breasts rub against him when she gives him a cut. I once told a close friend of his , that if anything happened to Pops for him to drop by and see me. We all laughed. Pops knows that when I see The Rock I have to get a tissue.
It is only natural to fantasize. That does not mean that it will be acted out. Trust and the security in knowing that your partner loves you is the key I think.

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4/26/12 9:23 P

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I wouldn't mind at all, really. I wouldn't mind if I found out from someone about me, and I've been approached by women (and a few dudes) about my guy. It is what it is, I take it as a compliment.

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4/26/12 8:43 P

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I have mentioned to male friends of mine that their wife or girlfriend looks smokin hot but ONLY when it was true. Never had a problem once.

If they would say that about MY girlfriend (no one has yet) I'd be the bigger guy and take it as a compliment so long as I know it's not a segue into the party room (if you get my meaning).

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4/26/12 8:38 P

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I'd want to know. I rather be told the truth than having something going on behind my back.

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I definitely prefer not to know. I'm pretty adventurous (imo) but I feel pretty uncomfortable when I'm not interested in that person. I imagine if that friend was someone my partner and I were interested in, erm, entertaining, I'd feel different.

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I've been watching episodes of Curb Your Enthusiasm on HBO Go. One of the ones I watched last night had Larry's friend/agent (Jeff) telling Larry that Larry's wife (Cheryl) made an appearance during Jeff's fantasy. Larry was not amused.

guys - how would you feel knowing your SO was on call in your good friend's spank bank?

gals - would you want to know?


personally, there are some things I'm happy not knowing.

Before it was public knowledge that DH & I were seeing each other, DH's best friend told me he had a dream about me. DH was standing right there (we all worked together at the time). DH told his buddy later in the day that we'd been going out. I think of his friend like a brother. Never had any interest in him that way; never will.


The most handicapped person in the world is a negative thinker; a person who has the skills, abilities, talents and tools, yet chooses not to use them.
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