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11/2/09 7:28 P

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I hurt and I was 5 months pregnant so I can imagine the pain you feel after carrying your child up until close to your due date. I am SO sorry for you and your family. I pray for you to try again and have a healthy baby soon. emoticon

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10/25/09 7:09 P

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I am so sorry to hear of your loss but you have come to the right place...all these ladies are wonderful and are here for you whenever you need to vent, encourage and motivate you. This is a great group...remember to take time to recover emotionally as well as physically...

Catharine
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Mommy of 2 angels - our baby angel boy and our baby angel girl.

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10/24/09 11:16 P

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I am so very sorry for your loss.

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10/24/09 2:18 P

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I am so sorry for your loss. Be patient and gentle with yourself; allow yourself to grieve and begin to heal.

My heart goes out to you. I lost my little girl just over 2 years ago.

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JOYOFTHEMORNING's Photo JOYOFTHEMORNING Posts: 132
10/24/09 12:40 P

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I just lost my son a month ago today. He was happily kicking around the night before, but when we went in for the planned C-Section, they couldn't find his heartbeat. We had the C-Section, and found that he had two knots in his cord. Sometime in the night he had rotated from a head down to a position accross my stomach and had pulled the knots, cutting off circulation. He was 38 1/2 weeks.

I'm trying to work through this and embrace a healthy lifestyle, but it has been very hard for me to combat these strong feelings of guilt. I feel like I don't deserve to be healthy because my son never got the chance.

But, I'm also a mother of a beautiful (rambunctious) two year old boy and I know that I need to be healthy for him. I would also love to be at least in the 170s if I ever get pregnant again. After my first son, I lost 45 lbs on sparkpeople and it made a huge difference in my second pregnancy. I had so much more energy and none of the complications that I had with the 1st, being 40 lbs. heavier. If I could be 40 more pounds lighter if I become pregnant again, I can imagine the difference it might make. The only problem is, I haven't been in the 170s since jr. high! Then again, I hadn't been in the 190s since high school and I made it the first time w/sparkpeople! I think I can do it again. I just have to work through these emotions that are threatening to hold me back.

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200--Electronic Food Scale (reached 11/21/09)
190--New Outfit (reached 1/3/09)
180--Spa Day
170--New Outfit
160--An "ideal day"
150--Weekend Getaway
140--new piece of fitness equipment
135-TRIP TO PARIS, BABY!


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