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Feeling Sad....

Monday, March 08, 2021

It has been a while and I don't know where to start. The Estate for my Mom has been mentally hard on me. My Mom updated her Will a year after my Dad passed and let's just say it would be nothing I would do. I accepted it and went on with life. I always had my Brother to talk to. We would talk once sometimes twice a week. He is all that I have left of our family from Germany. Well you know money is the root of all evil and it showed his ugly face back in October. I haven't been in touch with my Brother since then and yesterday the phone rings. He is all chatty and talking like nothing happened. I kept taking the phone away from my ear and looking at the screen saying to myself "what is going on in his head??" I finally stopped talking small talk and said "Hey Bro let's go back to October. Do you know what happened and why I am extremely upset with you?" He said he wanted to go back further and he brought up an older incident. I cleared the air up and then he got quiet. I went back to October and he admitted he was never going to tell me what had transpired. He said he knew that eventually I would find out but he had not intention of telling me what happened. I told him again that anyone in my life has to be open, honest and forthcoming. He of course had nothing in response. I told my brother maybe he can think of a way to repair what was done but I was at a loss. I kept racking my brain trying to think of something but if there is no trust, I don't know where we go from here. I said it is a shame that you flushed almost 57 years down the toilet with your Sister. It is really sad.....
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