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Done ..

Wednesday, August 12, 2020

yes I'm still in the books ..
all good books .. ( and includes the "good book" too )
one of the questions posed in the 8 strategies to self love and acceptance poses the question what does the life event
"done "
- look like?
- feel like ?
- promise ?

I'm sure all of us have been "done" in one way or another .. in a career .. a friendship .. a relationship
discovering and reliving this event .. has opened my soul to the fact that I need to be "done" with my foolishness too
its easy for me to stay stuck ..
in the past
in regrets
in the events of the world I have no control over
yet until "done" takes place
the worry .. the wonder .. the what ifs and the surrender of power will control my time and steal my peace

mindlessly letting time pass without owning it .. embracing it and making each moment count is when we truly lose ...

the war and struggle will always rage between our ears ..
until we embrace "done"

this truly has led me out of the mindless trips back and forth in time ..
trying to find myself in food or drink .. wishing instead of doing ..
what I discovered in examining my largest "Done" was that I truly am powerful and strong .. wise and courageous .. a warrior and a survivor .. all the while with a smile on my face to fool the world .. I lived "done" with ease and direction 25 years ago .. with a more recent event .. I discovered
.. that relationship "done" still had a hint power over my now .. the dreamer .. the fairytale story writer

reliving "done" is a powerful way to gain perspective and to finally truly forgive ourselves and others

yes dear friends I am enjoyed my books .. my time .. my space .. and growth ..
thus in turn I enjoy my family and those that truly matters ..
I am finding true balance .. in every area ..
my catch phrase daily is
" if this is my last day on earth ... how do I want to live it?"

each and everyone of us regardless of our circumstances needs to stand in their own unique amazing power .. the power of you .. the power of the Divine in you ..
we are so so blessed ...
blessed to have each other ..

now grab your sparkle and put in it place .. the world needs us to light the way out of the darkness

soon all of this will be "done" too ..
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    Interesting and so much to mull over. Thanks for sharing.
    199 days ago
  • SEAGLASS1215
    " if this is my last day on earth ... how do I want to live it?" -- certainly not sitting at my computer being screamed at by some psycho (this happened yesterday) but if I want to pay my bills...sigh...

    I want to be "done" letting other people's drama affect me, especially when whatever crawled up their butt and died is not my fault. I want to be "done" with my excuses, too, for why I am stuck in this hamster wheel of trying but not succeeding in losing weight and sticking to my goals. It's hard to be "done" and let go of the excuses. Each morning I start fresh but by nighttime, I'm back to my old ways with what seem like legitimate reasons for giving in and not "being done" with my old way of coping.
    199 days ago
    Great that you are enjoying the books and and finding your inner peace through them!
    200 days ago
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