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Sunday Feeling not a part.

Sunday, November 17, 2019

Hi Have you ever been with Friends and Family and not Feeling apart of this. Met up with Some Friends Yesterday for a Fun Day. And i just didn't Feel apart of this. I have been on this journey for better Health and At first Everyone was on board with my new Journey now its like are you still doing this and i said yes. We went out for lunch and i had to choose wisely they were ordering What they wanted and i choose Healthy and then they were talking about the Christmas party they are having and i was told if i Come i need to bring my own food and Desert because they Wouldnt. I said ok but don't think i will go. Some of my Family understand and try to Cook healthy foods. My Family isnt known to cook healthy for the holidays i Understand i used to be that Way.

I will Do this for me And me only. I love Everyone just wish They Could understand
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  • GOULDSGRANITE
    Our time to change and improve our lives, not theirs. We can only accept where they are at and continue with our own journey. My DS still mocks the black bean brownies I made last year for Christmas. I just keep quietly plugging away. I always remember my Aunt chastising the family for their diet or lack thereof, it still hurts me to think of it. I never want to be that judging person. Doin' my own thing for my best life. No comparisons. emoticon It's OK if it feels better to not go. Go with what feels good to you. You are doing great. emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon
    19 days ago
  • FUNLOVEN
    I know exactly what you mean. I had an outing recently with a friend and ended up feeling the very same way - rather flat. I'm not even sure what my issue was, but suspect it had to do with controlling my eating behaviors instead of indulging.

    Out DD is cooking her first Thanksgiving dinner for our family. She told me the menu the other night which includes fresh green beans. I said "What the heck?! Do you remember when I tried to serve them for Thanksgiving and you had an absolute cow about not having the old time favorite Green Bean Casserole?" We both got a good laugh out of how the table has turned.

    Best of luck with the darn Insurance Co.!
    19 days ago
  • POSITIVEHOPE
    It is hard to understand. We’ve live the difficulties. Maybe they haven’t or would rather not face the same issues in their lives. Sad isn’t it.

    I never go to a party and expert all my food needs will be met. Sometimes, I’ll have an apple at home before and sample whatever works and fill in at home later. Other times, I just say I’ve already eaten but I came for the company. A party shouldn’t just be about the food.

    Please don’t give them the power to set you apart. You deserve to be respected for your choices.
    19 days ago
  • PTOBYNE
    Not so sure those people are considered friends!! Knowbody needs people in their lives that aren't positive.
    19 days ago
  • no profile photo PAGACONCACA77
    You got this!
    19 days ago
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