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Friday, June 29, 2018

It has been a while since I have posted!

I am now down to 203.4 lbs. My goal is to be down to 150 hopefully by the end of October, but if not then by Christmas.

The drama with my ex has not gotten any better. He left me in May of 2017. Found out shortly after that he already had a girlfriend. They moved in together August of 2017. Now they are engaged. The funny thing is I don't care anymore. I honestly would not take him back anyway. The strangest thing is that he is the one who is vindictive. I was awarded physical custody of the kids and am listed as primary custodial parent. That means that I decide the kids school, medical treatment, religious activities, extracurricular activities and any other major decisions. He refuses to accept that. He still wants to control everything I do and the kids do. He would not even give me his work schedule until I got a court order. My daughters were awarded a scholarship to our local theater's summer children's workshop. They are going to be performing Annie Jr. My youngest got the role of Annie and my oldest got the roll of Lilly. They are so excited! My ex is saying that he won't be bringing the kids on his days even though the court order specifically says that he needs to cooperate with the decisions I have made for the kids. It makes no sense. My youngest lives to perform on stage! I am also a bit nervous about what is going to happen today. My ex (still legally my husband) refused to accept the week that I chose for my vacation. I told him that it would be from 6/25 to 7/1. He said that since he did not agree to it that I could not do it. He thinks that he can still control what I do. So according to the normal custody he would be getting them today at 5pm but since this is still part of our vacation I won't be taking them today. I have a sneaking suspicion that he will be calling the cops on me (he is a LT. for our local Sheriff's office). I guess I will find out soon enough. Meanwhile the girls are doing amazing in the play. I will blog later... after we see what happens today. Really wish my lawyer would call me back so I could stop stressing out over this!!!
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    Things have gotten worse. I dropped the kids with him and as soon as he got them in the car he locked the door and rolled down the window and said to me, "Well, taking the kids to MD. See you when my vacation is over!" My daughters started screaming and crying from the back seat. It broke my heart. I have no idea where they are. I don't know if he really took them to Maryland or if he took them to VA beach like he originally told my son he was going to. It is killing me. I went to play practice in the hopes that he would bring them today and he did not. This week can't go fast enough!
    528 days ago
    Sorry for your children and the problems when a family is split this way.
    531 days ago
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    Wow, I am so sorry that this is happening to you. Prayers for better days ahead.
    532 days ago
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