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OMG...My ex is an asshole!

Wednesday, June 27, 2018

There we go, I've said it and quite frankly I've said far worse about said person today! I am a lot calmer than I was yesterday but still, the fight goes on for what is right and decent. I've managed to steer clear of the wine, which, frankly, is a bloody miracle.
I have not binged either (another bloody miracle) however, my nerves are pretty unsettled and I am not feeling entirely comfortable in my own skin.
A short piece tonight as I have to go off and take Tom for football training ....playing mum and dad again as his actual father isn't interested! emoticon

Positives
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Tom enjoyed his taster day at senior school and I am confident he will slot in come September without any major issues.
The weather is nice emoticon
The housing situation is looking more stable for the foreseeable future but if not there will be a short term solution of that I am sure.
I received flowers emoticon
I am going to have company to watch the footy tomorrow night (I had to invite myself though)
Negatives
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Same as yesterday, the day before that and the day before that.....my ex IS an asshole.
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  • MAGICMEL131
    Thank you very much everyone for your kind words.


    Unfortunately despite informing the ex I would no longer spend money arguing over issues around the children via solicitor, he proceeded to get his solicitor to write to me which was basically him stamping his feet like a toddler having a tantrum. Because this is post 2 years now being separated, I am thankfully a lot stronger and took it upon myself to write my own letter in response to his solicitor meaning he will incur a fee and I will not. I instructed my solicitor to no longer act for me, Let's see how he likes that!


    I am clearly no legal secretary butI know mine and most importantly the rights of my children and I am really proud of that letter. Whatever comes of it I am showing I will not be bullied and I certainly will not allow my children to be bullied and manipulated by this overgrown man child!
    Thank you all again, your comments give me continued strength in a situation which can feel very lonely at times xxx
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    575 days ago
  • BRANDI1809
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  • L1LL1AN_M
    My heart goes out to you. Unfortunately some dads fail miserably at being dads, emoticon
    577 days ago
  • SEABUNNY
    You have right on your side x He can threaten lots of things but in the end he will suffer because his kids will see what he is really like and will choose not to see him. Kids have the right to live their lives enjoying their own interests whether it's an inconvenience to him or not. They have healthy interests too - looking after one of natures beautiful creatures and football - at least they don't spend every waking hour on technology!
    Stay strong!
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    577 days ago
  • 1965KAREN
    I've been there. Sorry you are going through that. Hang in there and know you are an awesome person!
    577 days ago
  • HAPPYDAZ1
    He's your EX and there's reason he is your EX.
    577 days ago
  • MYKDSRDRVNMECRZ
    Living w a man that has controlled things in our marriage for 25 years I get this! Ive stayed for the children but... So I understand! Sending prayers!
    577 days ago
  • PICKIE98
    Yet another time you say to yourself, "What the He77 was I thinking??????????" I have been there, done that, and I survived, became stronger and left the loser behind in my dust!
    577 days ago
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