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Wednesday, August 24, 2016

Hi Well three of my girls came home from school with head lice so we had to go out and buy kits and do their hair. I have no clue to where they got it from. They can't go back to school for three days now. Can anyone tell me why Men are A------. I swear I love my hubby but he a lying B
We been having problems and he wont leave the dating sites alone. He on them telling people he either divorce or single with no kids. Here we are married for over 16 years..We been through counseling and nothing. Sorry for ranting I am just so upset and stressed. Don't get me wrong I almost left his ass but he tell me that he loves only me and that the dating sites are nothing it only when he in a lot of pain and cant sleep at nights he looking for something to talk to as a friend. I am at a point I dont know what to believe anymore. Sorry for ranting I just need someone to talk to so I came here.... Hope everyone is well and doing good....
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    I hate to see a marriage go south... but I have to say you only believe him at all, because you love him.
    There are plenty of hobby and special interest sites to go on line, to for an honest person to make friends.
    If he is talking to women on "dating" sites, he is at the very least cheating on you emotionally.
    And what about the women he is interacting with, pretending to be available? He is abusing their trust as well. I'm sorry you have children with this man. He is teaching your girls what a husband is, and even if they don't know the specifics, kids pick up on sooo much more than their parents can see.
    I really wish you a good life. I'm sorry you're going through this.
    1443 days ago
    Hmm if he's lonely he should be turning to his wife to have someone to talk too. Dating sites are for single people. What if he got a hobby? There are a lot of websites for hobby groups where you can go chat with them when lonely (and they're not single women). I don't know...sounds like an excuse.
    I agree with Maringal, she uses harsh words but reality can be painful. Sometimes you gotta see the reality and not let him walk all over you. Hopefully if you talk it out he can change or find a healthier way to use his time.
    Sorry about the lice. uggh! My son has long hair so I'm really worried. He just started school and I'm afraid he'll get it! Hope the kits work fast and they're gone!
    1444 days ago
    Sometimes kids share their comb or hair brush, that's one way of getting lice. I went through it when I was a child. Good luck my dear, in this case, listen to your head, not your heart. Your instincts know the truth. emoticon
    1444 days ago

    Comment edited on: 8/25/2016 4:07:45 AM
    Wait, let me get this straight. Your "husband" claims when he is lonely he goes on dating sites in hopes to find someone to "talk" to? And you believe this? Are you in some type of denial perhaps? What is wrong with you? Can't he talk to you?
    I am sorry but this is basically a picture with the writing right in FRONT OF YOU!!!!! I suggest you sit down and read it…and if you don't get it, I suggest you read over and over until you get it!
    You are being led to acting like a fool. Please, don't degrade yourself any further. Attempting to go on dating sites to find friends is ludicrous, especially someone married!
    If my bf or husband (thank god I don't have one) ever ever EVER clicked his fingers on keys to get on a dating site, I would throw his belongings out to the curb and tell him him I won't tolerate his lies and unbelievable ridiculous poor judgment. Set your boundaries and keep them. Show some integrity dear one….This man is totally full of BULLSH*T!
    1444 days ago
  • JUNA89
    1445 days ago
    Lice are the worst! Sorry you have to deal with that. Keep doing you!
    1445 days ago
    Hi there. Sorry about all your stress! I own a Mobile lice removal service, and I wanted to tell you combing is your key to success. A good quality metal lice comb is best!
    1445 days ago
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