Need an opinion
Wednesday, August 17, 2016
I would like male and female opinion please. If a married man lays next to you while you sleeping spends his time on chat rooms and dating sites and looking at nude pics of females instead of sleeping with you and when you catch him and ask him why and he says he just looking for someone to talk to what would you think?
I been marriage for over 16 years to a wonderful man and he a great dad to our 7 kids and he loves to spoil me and we just had our 16 yr anniversary. I love my husband very much.
Well he been doing this and when I ask why he says it nothing just looking for someone to talk to. This is not the first time either, We been through marriage counseling and the person said he was addicted and needed help. We walk out and never went back. We talk about it and I even said it wasn't acceptable. He turn around and said that I have trust issues and that I need to work on them. He was not addicted but he on every time he get a chance. Mostly when I fall asleep. I woke up during the night and catch him on. We had major fights over this. But he always blame me and my trust issues. I am at a loss right now.
I found out that he sends them pics of him self nude as well. He chats on his phone as well. I have caught him lying to me about things. He on yahoo, skype , chat avenue, Isexychat, Internet chat city, kik just to name a few.
Is there a legit reason for married person to do this? Would you believe that someone is just looking to just talk? Would you think of it as cheating or he unhappy or just exploring. Would this create trust issue? How would you resolve this if it was you?