I did make it to the end of the video. I enjoyed your vlog very much. I understand the anger of why didn't they want to get to know me when I was bigger. I went through that when I was very young in my late teens, early twenties when I lost some weight and men started giving me all this new attention. Being decades away from that I can now say that I understand that physical attraction is a reality. We do have to be physically attracted to someone to see if we want to contemplate a romantic relationship. But it's getting to know you that decides if they want to stay in the relationship. So it is the inside you that is the important part that has always been there.
Enjoy the new attention and compliments and take it with love and acceptance. Enjoy your new freedom of what your body can now do. I also love hiking and the feeling from a great hike is like no other.
Your hair is fab, shows off your lovely eyes & the shape of your face. Trust people if they compliment you, it's hard to accept but believe me, you are fantastic having lost all that weight and being slimmer doesn't mean that you automatically become pretty/beautiful. It just means that people can finally see what is beneath the fat. I've lost 91lbs in 16 months and am only now seeing a difference when I look in the mirror even though my hubby and my friends have been telling me how different I've looked for some time. Keep going on your journey you are doing so well, remember this is a whole Life change thing and you can't ever go back to the way you were. I'm certain I never will. 1120 days ago