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The EX is getting on my nerves.....

Sunday, May 03, 2015

I`m so pissed today. My ex partner and father of my son is now wanting to lower down the child support that he is paying because according to him I`m lying to get more money. He is giving me so little and want to even lower it down. It is like 5% of his monthly payment and he is claiming that I spend his money on me ..........

He thinks that those money are enough but he is wrong is like 2.50 pounds per day for everything. I`m blessed that I`m not short on money and can afford to even spoil my kind but I`l so pissed that he is such a looser .
The good thing is that I did not eat any comfort food after this fight.

Happy loosing
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  • NELLJONES
    Fortunately child support is determined by a judge, not the person paying it. The judge's opinion is the only one that counts.
    2132 days ago
  • ANGYAS
    Thank u for the support. There is ongoing court trial but the judge send us on mediators and we were trying to sort this out and agree on all. My EX partner decided that the judge will give me less money in court and that this way he will not pay me what we have agreed.
    I do not want his money at all, I just do not want my child to be abused any more, because his father is an alcoholic and has really bad temper.

    I did not eat any comfort food and this is really good.
    Thank you for the support!
    U r the best!
    2132 days ago
  • BERRY4
    Usually the courts set an amount and it really isn't up to him to say what it should be. -- Hopefully it can be resolved in such a way that your son doesn't lose out on a relationship with his dad. Like it or not, that really IS an important connection for him to have.

    Good luck working out the details of getting what is needed.
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    2133 days ago
  • ALICE_TENNIS
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    Congrats on not giving in to emotional eating!
    You're becoming healthier with every choice you make!
    2133 days ago
  • PICKIE98
    Is it possible to take him to court to get the correct $$ for your son? As long as you document everything you spend it on, any judge will see the ex is a twerp and is dodging his responsibility.
    Shame on him.
    2133 days ago
  • STRIKERSANGEL
    Well I am glad that you didn't give in to the comfort food after the jerk made you feel like crap. I have a friend that used to have to deal with that. They're stupid because they don't realize how much it actually takes to take care of a child these days. I hope you continue on your journey and not give in just because of him.
    2133 days ago
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