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Feeling defeated...by life

Friday, April 18, 2014

I am by far a person who always "makes it work" come hell or high water, as the saying goes. But the man I am engaged to right now has me defeated. He has been living with me for 8 months and pays zero bills and I am paying his bills. I am broke! Completely. Not just financially but emotionally too.

I love this man but I cannot and will not live like this anymore. He is going to have to simply go back to his family. I am a single mom, I am a full time student and I now am working on my weekends to pay my bills, the house bills and his bills. I am done! Relationships are supposed to be about 2 people working together for a similar goal. This is me working and him not.

I am defeated......but I will change the situation this week because enough is enough!
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    I support you. You deserve the best.


    2544 days ago
    I agree with Clesher! That is not okay! emoticon
    2557 days ago
    Thank you all for the supportive comments. emoticon
    2557 days ago
    Trust your insincts here...no second guessing....you will do what is best...I have no doubt

    2557 days ago
    Its cheaper for you to move on before you say I do. Do not settle for anything OR anyone....you need to recognize & believe you deserve the best for you & your child. Your child that needs a strong, positive role models from both mom & the male you choose to bring into your childs life. Best of luck.
    2557 days ago
    Living together means sharing responsibilities. Of all things his own bills. Get rid of him, and if he gives you trouble, call the cops. No one should be living this way. emoticon
    2557 days ago
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    You can do it! Thankfully you realized what you need and what you deserve! emoticon emoticon emoticon
    2557 days ago
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