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50 Old wounds...

Monday, October 08, 2012

My daugter mails a happy message - her sister, my bonus daoughter is pregnant and having a baby in march.

I mail my daughter that she is going to be the best little aunt ever... and then I cry a lot bcause this tears the wounds from last year when that precious bonus daughter married – and I was not invited to that marriage. And I can understand that it was too comlicated to have me there with her father and all, but I was hurt that she could not write me and tell me that. I managed to tell her that I thought it was hurtful and not very fair to me that have been good to her all time her father and me lived together and we also continued to have a good relation efter the spearation.

Now I will write her another letter, with congratulations for the baby and invite her to my 60th birthdayparty... I will not let her father decide what kind of realiton she and I have.

Not my best day today.

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  • CHRISTINASP
    (((((((((((Meddy)))))))))))))
    R>
    2621 days ago
  • PHATPAT18
    Letting her know she hurt you by not inviting you to her wedding was the first step in healing the hurt inside of you. By inviting her to your birthday,that puts the ball back in her court. How she responds to the invitation with determine if she wants to rekindle the relationship the two of you had. I hope for the best.
    2622 days ago
  • PUDLECRAZY
    Good response, Meddy, but I know that hurts.

    Sending love. emoticon
    2622 days ago
  • SWEDE_SU
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    2622 days ago
  • KRZYKAT3
    good for rising above and making your own life with her. I gope she comes to your party!! I would definitely pursue the same course

    Smooth SAILIING
    2623 days ago
  • 1_AMAZING_WOMAN
    Old wounds never die; they just form scar tissue that doesn't hurt so much.

    I am glad you are taking the 'high road' and handling the situation gracefully and giving opportunity to still be involved with your bonus daughter. Time should make things flow much more smoothly.
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    Amber
    2623 days ago
  • JOYINKY
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    2623 days ago
  • GUITARWOMAN
    Your planned response is that of a mature and strong woman.

    good for you!
    2623 days ago
  • STONECOT
    That sounds like a great plan. Life is too short to waste on negative feelings. The line is drawn and it's time to rebuild.
    2623 days ago
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