Who can make you happier? 365 Qs to Spark Reflection
Saturday, April 30, 2011
Who can make you happier? How?
Mostly, I feel responsible for my own happiness. I am the one who makes choices in my life. I choose what I put in my mouth. I choose how I spend my money. I choose where I work, my car, my response to people, what I make my priority, etc.
Sometimes, it doesn't feel like much of a choice, but it is. It may be based on prior choices, but that counts. So, I, am my first answer.
I am also thinking about a situation at work. A certain person could make me happier by going somewhere else to work. Now there's a fantasy. There is a bit of a bullying situation going on. When my dream job came open, I couldn't believe that no one on site took it. I got it from outside. I now understand that it was because no one wanted to work with two "mean girls". I guess in this situation, what I need to learn, for my own happiness, has something to do with standing up for myself.