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Saturday, March 20, 2010

Okay so heres the recap of the date:
It took me about an hour to get to the restaurant because of traffic. Then once I got there and i saw him there was no attraction whatsoever. Now im giving you all a heads up..i may not sound nice but im honest and i know what i like in a guy and what i look for. He was way shorter than me and im attracted to tall men. I like being able to wear heels without even thinking about it. I wore heels tonight and was way taller than him. He came up to my shoulder. And its definitely true what they say about confidence. I used to not have any, and i would never get any dates and couldnt understand why. Now that I have confidence in myself I so understand it! Its such a turn off. He was not confident AT ALL. He looked at me started laughing and goes MAN im so nervous to be around you..and started ordering drinks for himself. I dont really drink (esp since im tryin to lose the stubborn pounds) so i got my water. The conversations were awkward, we had nothing in common, he was laughing at everything that WASNT funny and wouldnt laugh at the stuff that was. He kept commenting when it was silent. It was just weird. Not my idea of a fun time. Luckily after dinner we said good night but then as im driving home he texts me wanting me to go to car races with him tomorrow night and then texts me AGAIN to see if i had fun and then AGAIN to see if i got home! yikes.
Different topic: My interview. It literally was 10 minutes long, she remembered me from the phone and remembered my resume she briefly asked me questions about my internship said it was a pleasure meeting me and that they were going to make their decision TODAY. I havent heard anything so im guessing its a no go. I really thought i did well at the interview today but she did say they had interviewed 6 other people and i think i was the only student so the only one without experience..oh well. Out of my control right?? Just gotta keep truckin
Next topic: my weigh in
I got on my scale this morning and once again 148..what is the deal?! can we say plateau?!? ridiculous. But ill keep doin my thing because eventually I will wear that scale down and it will eventually move downward!
I hope you all had a wonderful friday..mine was a mixed bag lol. I'm glad I put myself out there and went on the date, bummed it didnt work out and that he wasnt who i thought he was going to be. Also bummed about the job but glad for the interviewing experience. Never hurts to get those under my belt. Anyway, we'll see what adventure comes my way this weekend. love you ALL
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    Sounds like your day was eventful and good "practice" in both dating and interviewing. You know my motto about having to kiss alot of frogs ... sort of the same with finding the right job too. Actually, I've always compared on line dating to a job interview. Great job on running the 6 miles!
    3621 days ago
    It sounds like HE liked you! Although, its good that you're not settling for just anyone.

    Soon, a job will come around and be perfect and yesterday will make perfect sense.

    So proud of you!!
    3621 days ago
    I think it's great you are getting yourself out there and have enough self-confident to know what you do and DON'T want. Sometimes I think when we don't believe in ourselves enough, we're too willing to settle and you deserve the BEST!

    Interview experience is a really big thing, I know how nervous I would get with interviews and it really helps to have already answered the question before!

    I hope you have a great weekend :)
    3621 days ago
    If you are having trouble with a plateau throw a wrench in the mix. I fiddle with the type of exercise I do. Instead of biking go down to the pool in your town and give your body something new! Are you still losing in inches?
    3621 days ago
    The interview experience is important. Next week the scale will be kinder. Have fun this weekend.
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    3621 days ago
    2 new and different experiences. Be honest with the guy - in the long run he will appreciate it. It is tough being the new kid on the block looking for a job. Just don't stop, search high and low and keep your head up.
    3621 days ago
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