stirring things up
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
I don't really want to "go there", but I will, and I don't want to piss anybody off, but I might...
I just have to say, and maybe I'm an "old school" lesbian, but I don't get the whole having babies thing - as lesbians. (not that there is anything wrong with that) I never wanted to have a baby. I used to tell my mom that I was having puppies! And that was even before (or maybe not) I knew "who" I was. Maybe it is just me, and has nothing to do with my sexual id, but seems like more and more couples are having kids........maybe it goes along with the whole marriage thing, which I know as a member of this community should be important to me, but that is not either. It was never necessary when I was younger and not an option that was out there so I never made it important. Does that make sense? But back to babies, it is a personal decision I know, it just seems to me the more new lesbian friends I make they have kids, or want to........Not me, is all I'm saying, and I used to be the majority, at least I thought. Any opinions? Go ahead, let me have it!