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beyond humiliated.

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

ok so I had a date tonight. I joined an online dating site and my photo is the same one that I have on here. Literally taken a few days ago which you know because of the stupid date/time stamp that i cant get off the camera. Anyway, this guy that was my date I know is gorgeous, has the six/eight pack and trains for triathalons the WHOLE bit. I was entirely myself every time we chatted online, he saw my photos all that so we agreed to meet for coffee today..I get there and his face falls and hes like "I thought you were a small, skinny girl..i'm sorry this really isnt going to work out, i have to be attracted to you" I just wanted to DIE. Beyond humiliated BUT i am not going to allow myself to drown it in food. I know that I have pounds to lose and I know that i will get there. I am a runner and have been but i just got lazy and I told him that ahead of time. Anyway, just wanted to share that with people that would understand my side of it. I think ill stop the whole online dating thing..at least for now. emoticon
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    What a jerk, you are so better off without him!
    3707 days ago
    Sounds like you are well rid of him!
    3707 days ago
    Wow, what a creep! You look great! You deserve someone less shallow.
    3707 days ago
    Whooooooooooooooa, what a jerk!! He can take his uber-hotness and shove it, seriously. You're gorgeous, and I'm not sure how he was expecting a 75-pound twig after seeing your pics and talking to you online!! I have to laugh a little bit at what a goober he is. But I agree, I would've been SO utterly mortified.
    3707 days ago

    His loss!!
    3707 days ago
    What a complete tool! That guy doesn't deserve you at all and anyone who is as superficial as he is isn't worth dating. You just keep running and doing what you need to do to feel good about yourself--it's about you and not anybody else.
    3707 days ago
    I'm so sorry that guy responded to you like that! That kind of response is totally his problem and says more about his character then about any kind of weight you will lose! You are a very pretty girl and certainly have more going for you by being a decent person than any jerk with a 6 pack! emoticon
    3707 days ago
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