Single or Attached
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Well I think each persons case would be much different, but for me I have been healthier single. Past relationships have said they are going to help or that they are already helping but they fact was they where not really saying what they were helping with. If the bad choices where something that they really wanted and felt they had to get me on board so that they where ok indulging then that is what was encouraged. I have left the past behind me and the unhealthy behind me too. I had gastric bypass surgery in 07 and thought I had the support of my boyfriend of 3 years the truth was the more weight I lost with better choices and exercise the more and more he tried to put a stop to it. Lets see if you can eat this or that? You are meeting guys at the gym you need to stop going! Well I got away from that!
Everyone around you feels they are helping or supportive, the truth is I do not think those around me really put any thought into their actions, things they say or do. It makes the journey a lot more difficult and you have to really stay motivated. Always ask your self is that what's best for me? Not oh they think it is ok so it must be. All and all for me single, strong, and motivated is what is healthier in my weight loss journey. One day I will have a great guy who is truly there and wants the both of us to be healthy, but no hurry. Selfish or not it is about me me me right now, LOL.