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6/1/16 9:14 A

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I use to believe the men, but I just recently made the first move. Girl power!

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5/11/14 9:36 P

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I tend to make first contact. It's extremely hard for me sometimes to realize that doing nothing can be doing something sometimes. When I see someone I like, I am inspired to reach out to them!

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4/28/14 4:21 P

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MEN ofcourse!!

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4/26/12 10:12 P

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I am a bit old fashion, I believe a man should make the first move in introducing himself and being respectful and seeing if the woman is interested in hanging out. But, I know in today's society its anything goes... :-)

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9/8/11 5:06 P

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1. Who should make the first move when trying to initiate first contact out in public?
2. Who should make the first move when trying to initiate first contact online?


My answer to the question is the same to both online or in public if you are interested then make the first move.
Online you can send a message that says hi it is possible that he/she has not seen your profile and you saying hi lets him/her read it and respond.
In public if you want to hold his/her hand then reach out and grab it while you are walking chances are he/she will not pull away and might just pull you in closer.



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9/5/11 7:39 P

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Hey Sexy Spark Singles,

Riddle Me This: In your mid-thirties

1. Who should make the first move when trying to initiate first contact out in public?
2. Who should make the first move when trying to initiate first contact online?



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