another take on fear.
Tuesday, May 26, 2020
There are those that have been abused. Are stilling being abused but can't get help. Why you ask? Their abusers are staying just in the legal realm on how they are abusing their victims. Mental abuse. Emotional abuse. Psychological abuse. Verbal abuse. Flat out control what a person does (where, when, how, with who). All of this is happening and its hard to prove. So these people fear the abuser.
I know. I may have gotten away from my abuser, but they know how to keep me in their snare, but legally. They have stuff of mine because I didn't know where it was when i fled. They held onto those things "for safe keeping".
I honestly don't even know if her exhusband even had an emergency protective order on him. My birth giver wouldn't even let me see the paper. Wouldn't have it on file when I was in school. "Me just saying there is one against him is enough" is what she said. I asked her for a copy so I could have it at work and the answer was always no. So there is a chance there never was one and now, he could try to find me and kill me. All because I literally told him no I had to stay home and do homework (I was in high school and was behind on school work).
So before saying fear can beaten, be sure to know why the person has the fear. You would be amazed.