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Friday, February 27, 2015

Having a very hard time with my husband. He is not a source of emotional support when I am upset. He does not give a sh*t.
I put a blanket on my son yesterday, and he yelled at me, "What are you doing?!" and shoved off the blanket. He is so incredibly mean.
I am super irritated with my employee. Although he is sweet, he is just annoying as anything. He wants to take over my job.
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  • no profile photo CD15145828

    Oh, honey. I'm so sorry. Is today any better for you?
    2147 days ago
    Welcome to spark people. There are great people here anxious to help you and each other. Continue to reach out you won't be disappointed. You've taken the first step by reaching out, it doesn't get any harder.

    Soon this will be the past, be happy, go have fun.
    2148 days ago
  • no profile photo CD15255276
    Sweet new friend, my son (age 17) is so like that. I am a single mom. My parent's wanted me when I had my son to move closer to them so they could 'support me'. They are very negative people. My mom died 3 years ago. So I know how you feel. Spark people and all my sparkly friends have really been a wonderful source of uplifting encouragement for me. You have joined the right site! If there is anything we can do for you...just let us know. After spending a month here, when my son 'growled' at me this week, I was able not let it bother me! emoticon And here is a emoticon to brighten up your day!
    2149 days ago
  • no profile photo CD3934996
    Well you will get a lot of support here.. He may be a control freak.. not to say he is bad looking.. but I had one and they feel that they have to have the last word and the only say.. I sure will Pray for you.. I believe that you will find a lot of support here on our team.. We have some of the Best Leaders and I love each one very much and have a lot of Faith in them.. so thanks for your first blog I am sure if you were like me it took a lot to it and only a few words.. So I am here and on the board.. if you need something.. jus yell or post go to your mail box.. I know I will see that one.. In His Love and Grace Just Me Jane emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon
    2149 days ago
  • RHOOK20047
    Welcome to SparkPeople. We are all here for the same reason, no matter what our personal story is. We are here to help each other to get to that healthy point we want to be in our lives. It is not going to be easy, but it is attainable. I have found that changing things up is the way to start weight loss. Make small goals and they will lead to big successes. You have to make you #1 and tell yourself that you are worth it. If you don't take care of yourself you can't take care of anyone else. You can do it! We are here to help! Welcome and get active on this site. emoticon
    2149 days ago
    Throw a snowball at him. Seriously, people are just tired of the weather and on edge right now. Hubby needs to take an exercise class.. and maybe you too just to relax.
    2150 days ago
  • no profile photo CD15296306
    You deserve to be treated kindly by everybody, we all do. But, some people use emotional abuse and verbal abuse to feel they have power over someone. You need to start sticking up for yourself....1 of 2 things will happen he will either be amazed that you spoke up for yourself or he'll leave...

    If he is so upset about your weight he should be applauding you every step of the way. It is NOT easy to deal with a relationship where fear and depression rule your life.

    Go about your "change" and do it for yourself...not for your child or for your husband...FOR YOU. And if the behavior continues you may have to take other measures. Would he go to a couples counseling? Maybe speak with your Pastor/Rev. at church as a couple? Sometimes just getting it out to someone else can help.

    Keeping you in my prayers....please, if you ever want to chat about anything personal feel free to email me...I've been through some of the same things you are now dealing with. I understand....

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    2150 days ago
  • POSEY440
    Dealing with these issues makes it hard to take care of self, but you need to.
    2150 days ago
  • no profile photo CD14026637
    Sparkcoach has helped me big time. The support is here.
    Go into the community and look at the different teams.
    Find one that sounds like it would interest you. That is what
    I did. I now have my own small team. If you can find one
    that deals with similar problems like you are having...then
    it helps. It takes a good week to really learn the site. I am
    still learning things and its been 1 1/2 yrs. now. Ask for help
    when you need it. I am so glad you blogged. It helps to see
    things in black and white. You have made an excellent choice
    coming here. Good Luck! God Bless!
    Connie in WV
    Co-leader 150+To Lose
    2150 days ago
    Welcome, Spark People has become my support groups for you see I am a recovering grease-holic. Yes, it is true if you can "fry it" I can "eat it".

    Moderation is a very important key to being successful in our journey. One day at a time....Look for small victories...Look for non-scale successes.

    Spark People research has found that people who get involved in social teams tend to be more successful in their efforts.

    I want to personally invite you to join the SparkPeople's Official Healthy Habits Challenge Team. There you will find others that will support you in your journey and you will be able to help others as well.

    On our team page BOBCATGIRL76 one of our team leaders has a great article to check out. Let me know what you think.

    We are here to help. YOU can DO this! Oh by the way...have you ever tried Fried cardboard, don't have much favor but a nice crunch....lol....Live life today.


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